DEAR KRISTI..WHAT WOULD HAPPEN IF YOU REALLY DID MAKE IT.

To the girl with big dreams...
What would happen if you really did make it? If you pushed through all the doubt and fears. If you just followed your heart shared your story and inspired other women all around the world to live their best life and go and get their dreams...how would it feel and how would it change your life.

Don't spend so much time in the "what if" stage, just focus on the here and now and projecting everything you can into one step at a time. Crushing one goal at a time. Not looking too deeply into the months ahead. Remember every goal you crush is another turning point to where and who you want to be. So just enjoy the ride. take a breath.

That feeling of accomplishment and satisfaction of all the hard work I put in is one that will be so special, trusting and believing in myself that I could and would do it. This is what I want to teach other women all around the world, just as I have taught myself self trust and self belief. The essence of where it all begins. This will be the foundation of what makes my success happen. But to also be aware of depression and anxiety give yourself time to adapt to the new demands you might be putting on yourself.

It would mean I become closer to the person I want to become. Playing small does not serve the world. I am depriving the world of what I have to offer, my teachings through my story. The realization that I am responsible for what will happen next in my life is both frighting and very exciting. I'm always looking for a better way to do things, a way to up my game. So I ask myself can this be a way to move closer to living my passion? Yes! making a better version of you is the most significant way to keep moving forward to your goals. A way to carve out the life you love.

Will I get too comfortable on one level and be afraid of the emotional journey when I up level. I hope not I want to keep soaring up as high as I can go, with no limits placed on myself. Just encouraging me to keep bettering the person I'm becoming. But I'm not going to fret, I've done it hard before. If things get rough I'll find my stride again.If I never try to take great opportunities and let my dreams become realities then the world  won't see my full potential and benefit from all that I have achieved.  And it will make it hard to up level myself and continue to grow and evolve into the best version of me.

Happiness...doing something that you love and lights you up. That feeling of Adrenalin and excitement when you wake up every morning. Isn't that what we all want out of this life? But something very important I will remember is not to loose me. Stay true to myself and who I am. Showing kindness and compassion far and wide. Keeping the smile I love to have on my face always, no matter what life may bring. A smile can really do so much to bring light to my day when things seem uncertain or gloomy.

Would I loose the real me? I won;t let this happen. I will keep focused and grounded in tune with the real me. I know success can also change you as a person, Make you loose sight of your core values and beliefs. But I promise myself that I will always stay true to what I believe in and true to the person I worked so hard to become. I will use any success that I achieve to make a difference in women's lives for the better. I want to make women feel confident in their capabilities to find their own success and live a life they love of abundance and happiness.



\So enjoy it, You are onto something really meaningful and impactful not only in your life but the lives of others. Your confidence is booming.
LET IT HAPPEN....

Kristi Xx

THIRTEEN YEARS DEEP IN THE MARRIAGE..TO SAY I LOVE YOU

I feel like the luckiest women in the world...And needed to write this today and praise this wonderful man I get to call my husband.

I know that's sappy and so cliche...but oh so true. I am married to my soul mate. 13 years making memories, lovers quarrels, having a mortgage, loving up all our fur babies, infertility struggles, so many health  issues, many fishing adventures, nights cuddling falling asleep and so much more. WHOA!! what a journey. But I could have never done this journey without him...

It's so scary how much time fly's. I really feel like if I blink my eyes we'll be 80 sitting in our chairs reminiscing (god willing we're both still here!) of the good ol' day's. Like cooking dinner together. Snuggling on the weekends with a good movie, exploring different places together. Not wanting to spend much time apart.

The most precious thing about our marriage is that we have grown into who we are today together. When I really look back at the person I was, I had no idea who I was or what I even wanted out of life. But being together has opened my eyes to things I never knew about myself. Finding strengths I never knew I had. So we really have brought the best out of each other. Life looks a little different now than the beginning. I work from home, and I'm chasing my dreams and step by step creating a life I love.

Challenges....this word has played a very important key role in our marriage. We've had plenty of them!! one after the other and still going strong!! But you know what...it has made us so strong and ready for anything. I am so proud of us both for what we have accomplished not only as a couple but as individuals as well.

You know I still wake up every day and just look at you. I look at you and thank god that you cam into my life. I memorize your smile, laugh, and every wrinkle etched on your face. I love how we go to bed the same time almost every night. You male my coffee every morning and I make yours on the weekends. I really love how clean and tidy you are and don't think twice about helping me around the house. And I especially love how you love our fur babies. Your gentle kind nature melts my heart.

The last couple of years have been tough. Me with my health and heart issues, and you being diagnosed with an Auto Immune disease. But then the light just shone through so bright with our little shining star joining our family. After everything it could have pulled us apart, but I knew it wouldn't. We don't like doing things like the "Norm". And that's why life with you is like one huge adventure that never stops!!

You continue to lift me up and show me I can do anything. And I continue to lift you up to try new things and believe in you. The wedding vows we said we are still living every single day, and no we are not perfect. But we show each other the highest respect and compassion. And that is real love.

I love you babe, I will continue to be by your side, cherish you, laugh and cry forever more. Buckle up tight because the adventure is about to get even better....