ARE YOU READY TO DO THIS...

OK OK.... This is something completely different. This is about YOU!!. yep you read right. This is to help you accomplish something you really want to but feel you are not good enough or fear of not having what it takes. So what do you want to accomplish?
- A new job/career path
- more self confidence in yourself.
- Be your own boss and start a business.
- Impact the lives of others in an inspiring way
These are just a few....
 Let me tell you my friend if you have the passion for achieving something.....you have exactly what it takes. Now go back and read that sentence again. OK..ARE YOU READY TO DO THIS ?

Are you like I was? Always having excuses why you shouldn't do this or can someone like me really do something like this? Sound familiar? Well I want to show you how to overcome this when these negative thoughts come into your mindset. What really has helped me get passed this and keep striving for success. Because we can't be successful unless we challenge ourselves. We need to walk towards our challenge to accomplish it. Heck I'm not saying it's easy but I know you can do it.

Now I'm going to take a wild guess but as women we all want success. Am I right?. Well I was so afraid of success, it dang near terrified me!! All the negative thoughts that would swirl around in my head. I'm going to share with you an exercise that I do to help boost my mindset into the positive direction. When I have negative thoughts that I can't accomplish something I write it down. Then .....I counteract that with writing down a reason why I CAN AND WILL achieve that. The positive thoughts and feelings that take over is JUST WHAT THE DOCTOR ORDERED. If you believe what you have written and just GO FOR IT you will start to accomplish what you truly desire. The key to this is BELIEVE IN YOU. And if you keep practicing this exercise YOU WILL! 

If you keep doing this as part of a daily practice of self belief the magic will start to unfold. I'll let you in on another key practice. SHARE YOUR KNOWLEDGE. You have something to teach the world!! When you do, you are truly making such an impact in this world my friend. Don't be afraid to share. There are people who need what you have to offer. Knowledge is learning and education the key factors that make us a stronger force in helping others make an impact the world we live in. Don't hide you valuable experiences, they are part of who you are and want to become.

So now I want you to go and start putting these simple practices to work. I would love to hear how you go, comment on the blog if your excited to accomplish something amazing! It's time to let you shine and make your long lasting mark in this world. ARE YOU READY!

Kristi Xx

MEMORY FROM MY CHILDHOOD..

MEMORY FROM MY CHILDHOOD..... This is something I have never really written about but I would love to share as these memories are so very dear to me and I have been thinking a lot about about. Growing up I spent a lot of time with someone that was always a guiding light and great love in my life. My Nona... Is their someone special like that in your life?

This is the hardest blog I've had to write as I had no idea where to start. There are sooo many beautiful memories I have with my Nona. She was my world. Growing up I spent a lot of time at Nona's. Weekends I would pack a bag and go to stay for the weekend. School Holidays I would spend there and I loved going to church every Sunday, and Christmas Eve Mass was so beautiful, she loved listening to me sing all the Beautiful Carols. I can still see the smile on her face.

My Nona was always a very early riser. The kitchen light would be on before 5am most times. And when I was there I would do the same. We would get up and have our coffee and talk, i loved this. And winter time we would have a splash of Brandy instead o f Milk to warm us up!! These were very special times that I think about every day. Nona had a nick name for me kiki. And I would always sign Birthday, Christmas and Mother's day cards Love kiki. This always made her laugh. And I did this always. I still have all the cards she gave me which started with To My kiki!! I just These are special memories I will cherish this memory from my childhood forever.

Now this will bring a smile and a laugh to your face. It still does to me!!. My Nona and I were Soap fan of Days Of Our Lives, Young And The restless and Bold And the Beautiful. So on holidays at Nona's with my sister and my cousins, they would be out riding bikes and playing, where was I ? Upstairs watching all the soaps with Nona. I WAS A DIE HARD FAN!! AND STILL AM TO THIS DAY. Do you like the soaps?

One very special thing I will remember is my Nona's cooking!! OH MY GOSH!! The aromas that came from her kitchen were mesmerizing!!. Spaghetti, beautiful soups and of course Gnocchi and Polenta at Christmas time. She would spend hours preparing the most beautiful foods for Christmas lunch and Dinner. And of course we would absolutely stuff ourselves until we could hardly move....

So these are very precious memories to me and will always remain that way. She taught me so much about courage and inner strength. I would not have gotten through my life so far without this. Would you like to share about that someone special in your life? comment below I would love to hear from you. Thank you for letting me share mine...

Kristi xx

WHO INSPIRES YOU?....

Who inspires you.....

As women we all have other women who inspire us at some point in our life. Women who have made us feel strong and confident. Women who have encouraged us when we didn't have the courage in our self. For me without saying my Mum and my Nona have being guiding inspirations throughout  my whole life. Now I want to share with you who inspires me with being an influencer and a writer to make a difference. It's important to have inspiration in your life that gives you confidence to believe in you and your dreams. let's take a look....

JENNA KUTCHER..
Wow this lady is definitley an inspiration in my life. She is an Entrepreneur, Educator, Photographer and host of the podcast Goal Digger. Jenna is from Minesota and is a genius when it comes to online marketing and is the best authentic story teller I have ever read. She connects with women in a way that saturates your mind body and soul with confidence. If your a budding entrepreneur with an online business then Jenna is your gal. Or if your are just feeling like you need inspiration in your life, look up The Goal Digger Podcast with over 250 episodes to choose from there is something for you.

RACHAEL BRATHEN (YOGA GIRL)
Rachael another important beautiful inspiration in my life, who lives in the beautiful Island of Aruba is an amazing teacher of modern Yoga and an incredible entrepreneur and the founder of The Yoga Girl Community. Rachael has worked passionately to create a new lifestyle and movement to heal and change the world. Her mission is to offer support in healing and expand the process of self love. Rachael is an advocate for healing your own heart first to then in turn make a difference in healing the world.

So who inspires you? Do you want to be a part of changing and healing the world together? Comment below and share your thoughts and inspiration. Let's do this together . Don't forget to subscribe free to this community and heal your own self and heart first and then make a difference in the world. Until next time
Kristi Xx

DEAR KRISTI: OVERCOMING THE FEAR OF FAILURE.

DEAR KRISTI:


I have read your story and know that your dream is to build my own 7 figure or more online business. This inspires me so much! I have been writing and sharing my story for a while now. I can sometimes be a little introverted, and quiet. And perfection is a huge part of who I am.  Do you have any advice on how to share my story that is real and authentic with a strong life connection. How do I overcome the fear of failure?

It is appreciated all that you do and share.
Yours Sincerely..THE FEAR OF FAILURE...

Fearing Failure...WOW those are some pretty good questions there. I really this this is a natural instinct to have The Fear Of Failure when taking on something of this dynamic and magnitude. Will the fear of failure always be there....more than likely yes. But you know there are ways to get on top of it and continue to crush your dreams and live the life you want. But what If I did fail? I want you to imagine I'm standing right beside you cheering your name, encouraging you to just GO FOR IT!!  ( I can just picture this..hilarious!). I want you to realize that you have something special to offer the universe. And you have the strength, courage and creativity to make your dream happen.

I have thought out every possible outcome of this, having myself set to fail. Having a plan for when I fail, and what to tell family and friends. Even though I am already a successful business owner being a Home Daycare Mum, this is my passion that I'm working so hard for. And I then realized that they would be proud of me for trying and giving it my all. If I did fail....I would survive. And then I didn't feel as scared anymore. I believed that I was worthy, I was enough and deserving of success. We have to own our story and message and make sure we kindly whisper it t those that want to listen. Invite people into your life and world.

I don't want to be "part of the group" . I want to be different and set myself apart from others and be someone that will be remembered for years to come. I want to believe in my own story telling way that's special and unique. I will keep listening to that inner voice cheering me on, tackle through all the growing pains and make a difference.
Love Kristi Xx

5 SIMPLE THINGS MUMS CAN DO TO CARE FOR THEMSELVES.

Hello my fellow beautiful Mummy's.  I want you to take a seat and get comfortable, take a deep breath. But not for long because hey we're Mum's and there are things to get done right ?

As a new Mum, Wife, Daycare Mum my days and to do lists are NEVER ENDING...can you relate?. 

So I want you to not get angry when I add more to that list. And these things are my absolute NOT NEGOTIABLE. 5 things that help me get through every day the healthiest physically and emotionally. Like me I haven't a doubt you already been negotiating with the kids, maybe the boss?. So now I'm giving us both to make these 5 non-negotiable things part of your to do list. 

1/ DRINK WATER.. I was such a coffee addict. Not that I drank to much. But I was so believing in the feeling that If I didn't have my coffee I couldn't get through the day. My energy would just keep fading. SIMPLY NOT TRUE. I would feel  more fatigued after every cup.  I don't drink coffee anymore, I love my Milo in the morning now. Drinking more water will not only help you look and feel younger but help reduce the fine lines and wrinkles the natural way. 

2/ EAT HEALTHY.. Eating healthy is the healthiest way to naturally give you all the energy you need to get through the day. A moto I like to follow is eat the crap feel like crap. When I eat lighter I feel lighter and have more energy for my Family and the people who are depending on him. 

3/ GET REST WHEN YOU CAN.. Now I bet you want to hit me because you think I mean take a nap. NO NOT AT ALL.. I mean when you are feeling frazzled or over worked and your starting to feel CRAZY, when time allows just take a couple of minutes and sit where you can. YOUR TIRED!!. most women I know do not have time for a Midday nap. But for me as a Daycare Mum when the kids are sleeping and I've had my lunch. I just sit and close my eyes. I like to sit in mediataion pose. The time fame you do this is totally up to you and your daily circumstances. Just 10 minutes is all you need. 

4/ MOVE YOUR BODY.. This is so important. Moving our body releases stress and any built up tension from the long day. Just like the coffee we thought gave us energy, moving your body actually does!!. The key thing is to find an exercise routine you like and enjoy. 

5\ STAY STRONG..  I find this so important. Don't do something you don't want to do. NO is actually a sentence.When you say no to the little things the important things are much easier to say YES to. Don't overload yourself when it feels like you are being pulled in every direction. And stand up for yourself if you don't like the way someone is speaking to you. Don't be taken advantage of. 

Remember self care is not selfish. Take care of yourself as well as you take care of those around you.....

Kristi Xx

HOW TO STAY MOTIVATED IN LIFE AND CHASING YOUR GOALS..

Are you looking for WAYS TO STAY MOTIVATED? Chasing your goals and dreams is a lot of hard work and discipline right? And sometimes we tend to get overwhelmed. I raise my hand to that one!! But honestly the key point is to remember why....why did I start in the first place, why do I want to achieve that goal? Remembering this keeps me focused, motivated and on track to reaching my goal. Knowing my strengths and weaknesses

  and build on them.

Unfortunately motivation doesn't come in a magic bottle or pill. So We have to plan and have strategies in place to stay on path. Choose goals that interest you and use rewards to make you feel a sense of achievement and accomplishment. Here are some strategies that have helped me and I hope will help you too.. Let's dive on in..

1 Have a plan or strategy but be prepared to change the course !! Keep on trying don't give up. 

2 I always have a plan on how I will deal with a lack of motivation. Have ideas in place to help boost you up when you need it. 

3 Keep in mind that end goal. What it is you are aiming for. 

4 Never be afraid to ask for help to get to where you want to go. 

5 I always have a check with how I'm feeling and my reason for why I'm doing this and why I should carry on. 

Sustaining motivation can be hard at the best of times. Motivation is not magic.But...you can tap into it and work on it continually and cater it to suit your needs.You can cultivate WAYS TO STAY MOTIVATED. Go ahead and try these strategies to help you succeed in life. I would love to hear how you go. Stay motivated and reach for the stars.

PS don't forget to subscribe free for more educational content and more of my tip and tricks. 

Kristi Xx 

MY FIRST MOTHER'S DAY IS APPROACHING...

As I approach my VERY FIRST MOTHER'S DAY, I am so filled with gratitude and love for the opportunity to be A Mum. But I am also very much reminded and thinking of all the other Women and couples who are still in their season of waiting. A place we were for a very long time. I can still feel the disappointments, the anger and even resentment. All those emotions as we were in our season of waiting. I guess a .little part of me feels sad to be feeling happy.

But I felt so drawn and compassionate to writing this to send a message to all the other women and couples who are still waiting. You are certainly not forgotten. My prayers and thoughts are with you as I hold our little shining star in my arms. I am thinking of you. And I believe with all my heart your season will come. And I truly hope that you keep believing it too. Through our almost 12 year wait, I felt hopeless, I lost my faith. But through it all....I never lost hope....... And This Sunday I will close my eyes and remember how it felt and respect that you are feeling this.

So My message to all the women still in their season of waiting this Mother's Day. You are not forgotten and not alone. You are in my heart. And may the love and support of family and friends offer you comfort through the dark clouds of disappointment. And the strength of hope to keep you believing. And I wish all the beautiful Mummies out there a wonderful Mother's Day especially if it is your VERY FIRST MOTHER'S DAY. And I encourage you to take a minute to think of those who are still waiting for their miracle.  If this has helped you I would love for you to comment below.

All My Love
Kristi Xx

OWNING MY STORY TO MAKE A DIFFERENCE..

OWNING MY STORY.... At one time in my life this would have been the last thing from my mind, talking about and sharing things that I have been through. All I wanted to do was hide from i and forget it. But as I got older I started to see that people were connecting with and listening to my story and it was actually helping other women with confidence to own their own story. And this felt really great. It helped me see what I had been through so far in a completely different light.

I guess in among the mess we don't think of how we can help others. How sharing our story can make a huge difference and impact in the wold. Especially if your story is messy and not at all rainbows (Does that actually happen?)

STOP LOOKING FOR VALIDATION..
You don't need validation...there is someone out there who has been through or going through the same and needs to hear your story to know they are not alone. I found that when I first started sharing my story the most comfortable way was writing about it. This was an effective way to say what I was feeling and say what I wanted to say with no reservations. Give it a try and see how it works for you.

BE REAL AND AUTHENTIC....
The number one thing I found when sharing my story is to be authentic. Speak from the heart this is what inspires and changes lives. Never think people won't listen to your story. Like I said there is always someone who need to hear it. Tell it from the heart and soul and from a place of compassion. You don't have to share a photo of yourself with the world if your not comfortable It's about sharing the things that you are proud of in your life. My story is always evolving and growing..

Until next time
Kristi Xx

MUMMY LIFE.. AND ME

MUMMY LIFE....I'm not sure I could even begin to describe how perfect it has been. I wanted to do this to share with you how I feel about being our little girl's Mummy. Of course there are some trying chaos driven days. A normal Mom life am I right? But when I look into her eyes or hold her all the messiness just seems to disappear. To all the Mum's out there do you feel this too?

As I write this our little shining star has just woken from her sleep and is sitting at the table eating her banana for afternoon tea smiling at me with Banana all over her face!! I love moments like these. But there are moments where Mummy Life can get really challenging!! Moments like dinner time when they refuse to eat what you've made (Yep we definitely fall into this category!!). Or when they won't stay out of the toilet and bring you the toilet block when your back was turned for just a minute!! Anyone else?... But this is all part of making memories as a family, And some pretty good tales to tell for her 21st!!

BIGGEST TRANSITIONS SO FAR..
Before I was a Mum I used to hear other Mum's all the time say "they are growing so fast!" Putting herself in her big girl bed was a really big moment so surreal with a few tears shed. Now that I am a Yummy Mummy myself (I always wanted to say that!) I truly know what they mean. Every day I wake up our Little Shining Star is doing something new and looks so much like a little lady. But let me clear this up she is NOT. My girl is such a tomboy, she loves shirts and shorts and tells me "No Thank you" to wearing a dress. Yep attitude and terrible two stage has begun!! Another huge transition is Daddy going back to work full time and Mummy working full time. The day's schedule has to be down to a fine art!!. All preparation is super organised lunches, dinners, clothes. SUPER MOM and SUPER DAD has it covered.. We are still a great team thanks SUPER DAD Xx.

ENTERING MOTHERHOOD IN A DIFFERENT WAY..
Well I can honestly say yes It was scary. after years of fertility struggles and going through processes it was like a whirlwind come through and instantly within days our lives changed forever. Instant planning and WHAM our Little Shining Star was here!! But you know We wouldn't have it any other way. That was they way God intended and it was perfect in every way. MUMMY LIFE is the most beautiful experience. Did you struggle with Infertility? Have you started your family through Adoption or Fostering. I would love to hear your story . Comment below and subscribe to this amazing community. Until next time..

Kristi xx

WAYS TO BE MORE ORGANISED..

Green Light Green Light..Yep I need this for myself as much as I'm writing it for you my friend. I am a woman who needs to be organised, if I'm not I am totally lost and my day is literally like a comedy club!. Now don't get me wrong being spontaneous is super important in life too. But I LOVE to be organised. (Well I try!). OK are you an organised person? Do you need help ? What does your day look like ? Well I got ya back with some of my tips I use every day. So lets dive in.

When wee all live such busy lives and the chaos starts from the moment we wake(Like me!). We need a little help with the everyday so things can go a lot more smoothly. It is so important when you have a plan in place to follow, and yes sometimes that plan gets gets thrown out the window. But it truly creates more balance in the everyday grind. Me..I'm not always a person that does well without a plan, I get anxious without structure. This sometimes drives my husband crazy!! So without further ado. Her are some helpful tips to keep your day more organised...

1 Write things down. I could not survive a day without doing this. So many different things happening in my day, my mind needs a little help. Write down the most important that you have to remember. .
2 Write deadlines and schedules. This is a must for me!!Prioritize the important and and write a deadline in your diary or calendar. Where you go to first and foremost everyday.
3- Give everything a home. To make it less stressful when you need something make sure things have their own place. That way you don't get so stressed when you go to get something and can't find it. I hate this!!!
4 Declutter regularly. I do this often. It saves so much time and accumulation of things that will just end up getting in your way and waste time that lets face it we don't have!

So what do you think? Simple but effective strategies that will help your day run more smoothly and productive. Now these are things I think we would all like. So go ahead and try these and let me know how you go and If they help you and your everyday. Comment below.... Until next time
Kristi xx

MY TO DO LIST....AND THE TIME TO DO IT.

To Do List......yep it's absolutely a mile long and yep I never get done what I plan in a day. Can you relate? But we sure as heck try right? Isn't it so crazy how as we get older the more we try to cram in in a day. The more we think we have to have done. Well this is me...I'm saying it out load. Constantly mind scrambling and adding to my do to list, and then cringing at the thought of how the hell am I going to get all this done. I mean seriously we need to stop doing this to ourselves and turning our to do list into a positive you agree?

Sometimes I think our mind is constantly going round and ticking constantly like a clock never stopping.  And this is me...constantly ticking and going. But after listening to some of the best life coaches in the world like Tony Robbins and Dean Graziosi. I had the best tools on how to handle this. How to get the most out of my to do list.  And I want to share a couple of important things I have learned...

1- Prioritize your to do list to what is most important. Get done what will turn the needle in what you are trying to achieve in your day. What will get you to where you want to go.
2- Separate what is trivial and what is important to your why. Why do you need to get this done. Is this going to create the impact you want to put out there. Weather your a stay at home Mum, your working a 9-5 with a Family or wanting to start a Business.

I really found this to help me so much keeping me more grounded in my busy hectic day to day and I know it will help you too.Stay focused on the goal and use your to do list to strategize your path Have you Subscribed yet to receive more helpful tips and strategies I use to live your best life. Comment below and let me know what you think. Share if this helps you and with a friend if you think they need this. . Until next time...

Kristi Xx

WHAT IS YOUR PERSONALITY TYPE ?...

I love talking about my personality!! I mean I really work hard on bringing forward in the most authentic way my caring, funny, inspiring, determined,driven and passionate sometimes cooky and loving personality. Have you ever really thought about your personality? Our personality is a huge part of our make up of who we are...what we are made of and what our place in this universe is. Lets dive in and look a little closer.



Now let me just clarify something. The way I just described my personality is not as it has always being. As of a few years ago I was not driven or passionate, I was a dreamer with no plan or ideas. I was not a doer to get things done to get to that place I wanted o be. It took a lot of changes and hard work to realize I had to put myself out there to show people the best of me. Let's be honest..the personality that you put forth into the universe will leave a lasting effect on all the people in your life. A saying that I often go back to and remind myself is "Personality starts when comparison ends".
As individuals we each have a personality that best suits us and who we are. And we can change our personality as we grow and evolve as individuals. Like me, when I was younger I had more of an inward personality. I was kind of safe and comfortable in my own little bubble. Until much later on I began to grow and come into my own of exactly who I was with no comparing and judging.

It is so very important to let our personality shine, don't hide it or hold back. Celebrate your personality and who you are. I would love to start a conversation now Comment below what personality type are you?  let's share and be thankful for being us and see if we have anything in common.. and gooooo.........

Lots of Love Kristi Xx

HOW TO BECOME THE WOMAN YOU WANT TO BE..

Hi there all you beautiful women out there! Is this something you are striving to achieve?Absolutely right? well I'm here to share with you some very important things I have learnt along the way. And I know will help you too....you have to be prepared to put in the work, are you ready.. lets dive in.

YOU HAVE TO FIND YOUR INNER VOICE.
Your inner voice is going to be a very important part of your journey. It literally is who you want to be.Your inner voice will help guide you on the path that you want to navigate. You should always listen to your inner voice, it knows just the right time to lend a hand when you are putting the pieces of the puzzle together of who it is that you want to become. And the impact you want to have on the world. I learn't to listen very carefully to my inner voice. It is very truthful in telling me if I'm heading in the right direction of where I want to be.

LEARN TO BE MORE COMFORTABLE STEPPING OUT OF YOUR COMFORT ZONE.
This was something I found hard as I had never before done that in any way, I was the quiet one who liked the one spot and didn't venture out to try many new experiences. But when you just put one foot at a time eyes wide open new experiences, opportunities and doors will open. This was I how I found I started to see myself as being on the right path to becoming the woman I wanted to be.

NEVER BE AFRAID TO SHOW WHO YOU ARE YOUR DREAMS AND WHAT YOU BELIEVE IN.
When I was younger I think the reason why I was so shy and didn't like trying new experiences was for fear of what others would think. It can feel scary when you see you are making others take notice in whatever you are doing. Let's face it not everyone is going to like what it is you are doing, and that is OK. There are also people you may be inspiring and helping with something they may be struggling with. It's your dream so go for it!!

So this is really a tough journey right? and you have to be prepared to put in the hard yards to get to where you want to be. And there are going to be some bumps and bruises along the way. Some setbacks. But remember you are fierce, you are a warrior, and you can be whatever you want to be. So go out there and leave your mark in this world to be remembered. And be the best you you can be...For more inspiration and educational content subscribe free to the blog. It's all for you....
Kristi Xx

10 THINGS YOU SHOULD KNOW ABOUT ME...

Well Hi there... would you like to chat for a bit? Would you like to find out some more of the good stuff about me? Well I'm ready to spill more of the beans. A little more about who the heck is Kristi Menso and what makes me...well me. So sound the horn here are 10 THINGS YOU SHOULD KNOW ABOUT ME.

1- I am the most absolute indecisive women you will meet (Ask Trevor!).
2- I love my midday naps on the weekend!! (After our daughter is asleep) I literally can't keep my eyes open it's lights out...
3- I have an obsession with Maxi Dresses. I love them! they are so comfy.
4- My absolute down time is listening to @goaldiggerpodcast with @jennakutcher this lady is amazing!! If you haven't already you should seriously check it out.
5- I have Turner Syndrome (TS) which is a genetic disorder check it out what a ride it's been!but hey I'm rocking it...
6- My favorite place is Whitehaven Beach in the Whitsunday's this is my special paradise,. Have you been? I am certainly a beach girl! How about you?
7- This is an important one. I love to use only natural skin care products. I personally use Sukin Skincare Range. The best ingredients all natural no harsh chemicals.
8- My favorite Author is Danielle Steel. Yes I am a true hopeless romantic (again ask Trevor!)
9- I love public speaking! I'm not telling a lie Honest!!! Yes I get soo nervous but a certain energy takes over and it just seems so natural. I love to inspire and motivate people.
10- And last but not least, I am a very selfless woman, I always have a tenancy to put others needs before my own, It's just who I am. I sometimes admire this quality in me and other times think differently. You should always fill your own cup first to full give to other's.

Well there you have it. 10 THINGS YOU SHOULD KNOW ABOUT ME... Tell me did any of these relate to you? Did you find we have things in common? Comment below I'd love for you to share with me. So I am really just a small country town girl at heart with big dreams!!! A strong, brave confident proud woman. But it took a lot of work to become the person I want to be. You can do it too.... Until next time Friends. Have you subscribed free to the blog yet?  What are you waiting for!

Kristi Xx.

WHEN ATTITUDE IS CHANGED THOUGHT IS CHANGED,

Attitude... I use to hate that word. It made me think of myself in a negative way. And honestly so unmotivated and lacking in self confidence. I had absolutely no idea the importance of how a healthy attitude affected how my day would turn out. Trust me when I say if you wake up with a positive and happy attitude you will achieve what you want for that day and more. But if you have the attitude that you can't and your thoughts are full of negativity then it is not going to happen . WHEN ATTITUDE IS CHANGED THOUGHT IS CHANGED.

I raise my hand when I say negative thoughts are so dam draining, and the more I gave into them the stronger they become. Some great ways I have used to change my attitude are
1 keep a gratitude journal of things you are grateful for.
2 Use positive words to describe your life.
3 Don't forget to breathe!!

So I want you to try ... wake up and smile. Be grateful to be alive. Whatever goals or dreams it is you want to create that day say to yourself GO AND DO IT!! Just doing simple tasks like this can have a huge affect on how your day will unfold. I found that when I did change my attitude I started to see a change in my life because my thought pattern started to change in a more positive direction. I had more confidence to get the job done and abundance and success started to fill my life. Do you have a healthy attitude? How is your thought pattern? comment below and tell me how you are making positive changes to your life. Let's do it together to create more success and abundance. And more importantly showing gratitude and love for the amazing woman you are.

Kristi Xx

OUR JOURNEY IN PARENTHOOD SO FAR...

Hi there friends!! Well I can honestly say I never thought I would be writing about this. But here I am Writing about my journey as a first time Mum SURPRISE!!! and OUR JOURNEY IN PARENTHOOD SO FAR. With my struggle with infertility and countless IVF cycles you know our Journey see my blog post on my struggle with  infertility. Our Journey through Adoption and Fostering for nearly 12 long years has finally brought us our dream. The absolute joy of becoming parents. Her is how our first month has unfolded.

WHAT IT'S REALLY LIKE AND HOW WE ARE FEELING

We feel so blessed to be given the opportunity of being a Mum and Dad. And we are all settling in so well so far a little exhausted.. Id be lying if I said we weren't!!. And life as we knew it has changed completely and it's amazing a whole new feeling of sunshine is consuming our hearts!!!. Our little ray of sunshine has settled into our family so well and is so adored. what can I say we are besotted. And I can  totally understand now when other Mum's say thing's like "Showers are like 2 minutes and gone are the days of sitting quietly on your chair, not with a toddler running around!!" But I would not have it any other way. To hear that words "Mummy" and "Daddy" and see that smile is the most incredible feeling in the world. But Motherhood certainly hasn't come without any challenges!!. They way I manage my time and the routine I had before had to instantly change. It's like learning time management all over again!!. But after our first month in the parenting world we have really gotten this down to a fine art!! We just moved into the groove so easily!! We make such a great team.  With the help of the most wonderful Daddy and Husband. He truly is our rock thanks Babe Xx. As I am typing this nap time is over and Daddy is doing the nappy change. What a team....

WAS THERE ANYTHING THAT SHOCKED ME ABOUT BECOMING A MUM ?
Honestly, I was always terrified. It is totally different with Fostering and adoption. The bonding and attachment processes are so very different and happen in such a different way. So I was always scared if this would be a difficult process for us. But for us, it has been amazing the bond that we already have as a family is incredible and feels so natural and heartwarming. It just felt so right. And the love I feel just captivates and overwhelms me. Even though I did not give birth to this child. I love this child just as If I had....even more!!

SO IN CONCLUSION..
To wrap up the first chapter of parenthood... simply amazing. Challenges, yes of course there has been but teamwork is the key. And we can proudly say we have nailed it!!! Nice work us.. But we also couldn't have done it without the love and support from our families who like us are just as Besotted and deeply in Love. We are so excited to see our little ray of sunshine grow, learn and thrive before our eyes. Until the next chapter OF OUR JOURNEY IN PARENTHOOD.
Kristi Xx

What Is Self Love ?

Well hello there my friends!! Self love.. This seams to be a topic that so many of us women struggle with on a daily basis am I right ? I am sitting here with my hand raised too I can assure you.!! Self love is so very important because if we don't fill our own cup first we can't fully give to those around us.  Well lets dive into the the topic and I will share with you my journey with self love.

I have always struggled with showing myself any sort of love. Growing up I hated the way I looked, I was and still am short (4''11 to be exact Yep). I didn't like my arms and the list goes on..are you resonating with me so far? But every one of us has something we would like to change about ourselves. It's part of being human and part of being a woman. Self Love is being able to look at ourselves and say "Yes there are things I would like to change, but I love and accept myself for who I am". And that is your own individual, your own unique self. And yes this can sometimes be difficult, we say this but don't really mean it. But I challenge you to keep saying it because you will eventually believe it.

OK so I can hear you say "Well what can I do to show myself self love and appreciation?"
I will share with you some of my strategies that I use and other strategies that I know will help you too.
- I start every day with positive affirmations like "I am worthy, I am unique and I am me".
- I find time every day for me, weather it be a meditation, a soothing face mask, sitting outside with a nice cup of tea.
- Meeting friends for a coffee, being around others that will lift you up an encourage you.
These are just a few. Find what works for you and what makes you feel good.

Each and every one of us is worthy of our own love. You just need to take a really good look and you will see all the wonderful qualities that are shining within you. So I want you to now go and look into a mirror and say "I love me and I am worthy of love".
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Xx Kristi.

Q&A Time!! And I'm asking...

Yep..It's Q&A time and I'm asking. As we are feeling the effects of a brand new year blooming forward in full force. I want to take this opportunity to have a heart to heart. I want to find out what your goals are and what is it that you need guidance and education on? What type of educational content are you looking for? And what is it that you would like to see more of on the blog and my social media. Yep, I'm inviting you to educate me about you!! and what you need to live your success.

SOME IDEAS.
Ok I got a head start and have some ideas and I want you to tell me what you think?
1 Tutorials- Would you like to see more live videos of educational content?
2 E Books- Would you be interested in educational content in E Book Form?
3 Would you like more up close and personal with me?
Some really amazing ideas yeah? Well what are you thinking so far?

So what do you think? I thought it would be a great way to start 2019 to invite you to be part of it all. I want to make sure I'm giving you all the tools and guidance you need to navigate you own path to success and happiness. So comment below or send me an E mail to tell me what you need more guidance and inspiration on. My passion is helping others through my own life experiences. So lets link hands. Until time my friends.

Kristi Xx

FOR EVERYTHING THE SEASON TURNS...

Seasons...changing constantly. Every change in our life is like a season, constantly changing and yet each time feeling totally different. Our life is exactly like the seasons. Sometimes warm, sometimes cold and sometimes just right. And a lot of the time we find our self changing both physically and emotionally as life changes into these different seasons.  And remember this looks different for each and every one of us. Let's take a look...

My life has been through so many seasons and 2019 is going to be my biggest one yet. My life is constantly evolving and taking paths that I had not planned for. For Me the last 18 months have looked pretty cold and sheltered. But as the end of 2019 approached I felt the season change. It was like the sun coming out and the cloudiness was beginning to clear. Have you ever felt like this? Since I began my journey with entrepreneurship, I felt like a whole new season emerged, I began becoming less afraid to share my journey and so passionate to empower women to find their inner Boss Babe and go for their dreams.

So what do you think so far? Can you relate?

Success is something also that is like a season, always changing. Is success like this for you? But that's OK. The path to success can change sometimes unexpectedly also. For me Yoga will always be the start of my journey into  Entrepreneurship. And as life season's change my passion is sharing my life experiences to help empower women to cultivate and live their own dreams. And you can do this through the strength of your own life experiences no matter good or bad.

So how do you relate to this? Has this helped? Share with friends who might need this. Subscribe free to be a part of this inspiring and uplifting community and receive weekly guidance on navigating your own success. Until next time . FOR EVERYTHING THE SEASON TURNS.
Kristi Xx. 

Click Here For 5 Hilarious Things About Me!!

Hello Hello!! Happy New Year My friends. Wow 2019!! Lets rock it...
I wanted to start 2019 with some happy fun vibes what better than sharing 5 HILARIOUS THINGS ABOUT ME!!  Are you ready to laugh I am😃 Here we go.... Get ready for some laughs!!!!!

1 Vaccuming.. I love to vacuum!! I get in my zone lol Whenever my husband, Mum and sister sees a crumb on the floor they turn to me and say and say "Quick wheres the vacuum cleaner!!"  Yes I am a little OCD lol 😃It drives my husband nuts!!!

2 Whistling... For the life of me I can not whistle!!. I keep trying and puckering up the lips but still at 41 I can't make a dam sound but I will keep trying I will wistle!! 😏

3 My nickname....This is hilarious are you ready it's Titi!! 😮 Yep I kid you not. As a young girl my cousin couldn't say Kristi so this is what formed and has stuck with all my life, my cousin and family still call me this to this day!!!

4 SLIPPERS... Yes I'm slipper crazy when I'm lounging chilling at home I absolutely love to wear my slippers. Really it's so relaxing!!. My darling husband calls me Grandma!! As soon as I hop out of bed I slip into my comfy soft slippers. Are you laughing yet?

5 This one is embarrassing!! But here it goes... When I was first driving I had to put a pillow or phone book under my seat cover to reach the pedals!!. Hey I'm only 4'11!! And I had to find a safe way to drive. Ok now you must be hysterical!!

So there you have it 5 HYSTERICAL THINGS ABOUT ME!! Did you laugh? comment below to tell me 😂. What are some hysterical thing about you? Would love for you to share in the comments. Lets start some happy, fun vibes to kick off 2019. Sending happy vibes straight to you.

Kristi Xx.